Depression and Anger getting soooo bad

I’m 17 weeks pregnant and I have a history of depression but it’s so bad. I have a 1yo daughter and I just feel like sometimes I’m mean to her when she’s throwing her tantrums because I’m justso overwhelmed. I feel like at times I can’t even breathe . The anger is being taken out on my husband. I feel so mad at him bc he gets to do everything that he wants ALL the time . I just feel like I’m shutting down .