Should I leave him?

My s/o and I have been together for 6 years, but for the past few months our relationship has been strained. He is currently unemployed, has a large spending problem, and does not leave the house.

He continually makes me feel guilty about going to my mother’s house (helping with chores and remodeling). He says he is always alone, but he has the opposite sleep schedule of me (sleeps from 11am to 8pm/ I sleep 10pm to 6am).

Wearing makeup means I’m trying to look good for someone…or that he feels the makeup would be a waste if we didn’t do something sexual.

And with sex, if I reject him, he persists and asks an additional 10 times and then gets upset and accuses me of not being attracted to him.

Since April I have had serious thoughts of leaving due to this.