No response but they’re active on socials. Do you get upset or nahh?

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When your significant other doesn’t reply to your messages for a long ass time but is active on social media, like actively replying and such to others, does it make you upset? What does it mean?

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Scrolling on socials takes no effort, nor concentration. Just because they're scrolling mindlessly doesn't mean they're happy to have a conversation. Let's normalise not needing to reply immediately to non urgent communication.

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Man, what kind of relationship are you all in? Holy smokes.
This is her PARTNER. On a very stressful day for her and he couldn’t reply to a single message while obviously already on his phone? I’m sorry. That’s crap.
Partners should be supportive. And if “mental health” keeps you from sending a quick message to your SO you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship. You can’t just check out whenever you want.
Honestly OP, he sounds immature and not like a good partner. If this is a one time thing, try talking it out when he responds. Maybe something is going on. If it’s a pattern of behavior then I’d reevaluate the relationship.

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Phones can show you as online or active on social media without that being the case. I used to have overly clingy and obsessive girlfriend and she used to accuse me of ignoring her because Facebook showed me online when I was sleeping. We broke up over it.

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He knows to reply 😂

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Edit: 
Just wanted to throw in a little backstory. 
I start my new job today and my s.o. Knows I’ve been very anxious and we’ve discussed that I panic easily, plus a recent plan B pill has made me even more emotional, on top of the stress of starting a new job. So then I worried a lot last night, because we were supposed to do something to get my mind off of things and yet he couldn’t send me a 2 second message to tell me that he was too busy or reply to anything.

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What else is going on?
I aimlessly scroll on social media. So I might be “active” but am not really. He’s not giving you the attention you want, but are you asking him urgent things or wanting to just text to text

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I saw this and saved it for this occasion :

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Nobody is required to respond to you. So I always keep that in mind.

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I don't notice because I don't care to check. Not to sound old or whatever but this is like a younger generation problem. I don't need my man up my ass at all times. If he's in the middle of something he will get to be eventually. I don't see that as a big deal. We all need a break to wind down or relax.

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Just because someone is active on social media does not mean they are in the mental state to hold a conversation with someone through text/Messenger. Replying to comments doesn't take the same energy.

No response but they’re active on socials. Do you get upset or nahh?

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