So…. Husband and I had a conversation about what our birth control will be after we have this baby. He is adamant about me having my tubes tied or him getting vasectomy. I mentioned im not okay with having tubes tied but could do an IUD or something of that sort. He said I was selfish about not wanting to get the procedure done and that he would get the procedure done then.

Is it really selfish to get them to do something in regards to the birth control?

I mean im not forcing him to do it i am ok jumping on birth control im not okay with having a more invasive procedure to MY body. Am I wrong here? 👀 Did I miss something? 😜