I will probably get hate for this but…

I’m so frustrated and so tired. I had ANOTHER chemical. I’m not giving up hope and I’m not going to stop trying but I’m so frustrated. My lines were gone this morning and I had an appointment at carenet just a few hours after and the lady literally told me, her exact words, “this could be happening because you aren’t following the rules of God.” I asked her what she meant and she said “Well you’re not married, you’re not doing it in order, so that could be the cause.” SHE TOLD ME TO JUST STOP AND TRY ABSTINENCE. While I do believe in God and I understand and respect everyone’s beliefs, how could someone look me in my face and tell me the reason I can’t have a baby is because I’m not following rules.