Best friends reaction to my pregnancy.

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Okay so I have been actively TTC for almost 3 years and I finally am pregnant 🎉🎉🎉 yaaayyy. It was a massive deal to me and my best friend knows how much I have cried for this. When I told her I was pregnant I expected excitement for me but it went a little different. She said congratulations and said she was happy for me Ofcourse but then she started complaining and moaning about how she wants one too and made my announcement a bit about her. I felt like my pregnancy didn't matter because I already have a 7 year old. I totally get wanting a baby and trying for one but she isn't even actively trying and it's only been a couple months since her wedding.

I just felt a little bummed out I guess. I didn't get to be happy with her because I instantly launched into helping her out emotionally and trying to make her feel better. Telling her what she can do to improve her chances of conception.

I know how it feels when other people get pregnant while you are struggling. But I never ever ever made someone else's good news about my struggles. I have always been super happy and excited for them even if it made me a little sad inside for myself.

I know it's probably just my Hormones and me probably making a bigger deal out of it then it is. But I'm just sad. We barely talk now because I can hear it in her voice and see it in her replies.

If any one has any advice as to how I should approach this. I do message her and ask how she is feeling and if there is anything I can do to make her feel better.... But she doesn't reply.

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