Xmas gifts issue!

My toddler-2 has plenty of toys, big and small. To the point that they are scattered all over the house and I’d prefer to throw most of it in the garbage. So a couple of family members have asked me what they shoulder get for Xmas. I said prefer money to put it in her savings account. But now, I’m finding out she’s getting a kitchen to play with, dolls, clothes! Why ask and not bother to go with me request?! This is annoying me so much