Was I wrong?

Hi everyone I’m talking to this one guy and we’ve been talking for around 5 months but I’m not ready for a relationship yet. I still make the effort to come see him at his house and plan some dates here and there. I noticed he doesn’t do anything for me and I feel like it’s one sided. He always tells me how I don’t care for him whenever I don’t come over. But I’m always coming over for him. I realized I was doing all the effort and he has the audacity to say that to me. I just spazzed out on him thru the phone because he doesn’t treat me like I’m special at all. I get we’re not in a relationship yet but he texts me “hey babe” and calls me love and this and that. The least he can do is come over so we can hang out instead of me always driving him around. I feel stupid for being treated like this. Am I wrong for spazzing out on him? I literally have to tell him how to treat me.