Is this right?!

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My other half and I haven’t had sex in months…. He always says he’s tired. What’s with men saying they’re tired but is not tired enough to jerk off to porn or only fans??! Sometimes he’ll have the urge in the middle of the night but then falls right back to sleep. As if he was sleep sexing/dreaming lol I know it’s not a real term but it’s closes to how to describe it. Another reason why we don’t have sex anymore is because recently this year I was diagnosed with cancer. It was only stage 1 and I’m in remission now, but still won’t have sex with me. I’ve talked with my doctor and it’s okay unless I am up to it and have the energy, which I do, but he won’t touch me…

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Yeah I wouldn't be okay with that, months without sex but he can watch porn and make effort doing that. Tell him it's you or porn, but it could be he's scared of hurting you.

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Maybe he's telling the truth. Sometimes it's a lot easier to just rub one out and get a quick nut than to put in the effort to make love

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I go in and out of having sex for a couple weeks…sometimes we just don’t feel like it. Talk to him about it and make it a safe space for him to talk to you. I don’t know how else this can be resolved unless you talk…otherwise it will be repressed and resentments will rise up. Maybe he doesn’t know that you want to have sex.

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When were you diagnosed? Could that be a reason? Like what if he is scared to hurt you or something? You don’t think he could be cheating do you? I mean I don’t know him but maybe he is tired…I feel like it’s the cancer thing though. You know some men don’t like sleeping with their gfs/wives while they’re pregnant because they’re scared…maybe it’s the same concept here? Congratulations on the remission. I hope he’s able to give you answers soon.

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