This weekend I went to my male friend’s house to hang out and have some drinks. I consider us to be friends only, nothing more at all ever.

We both drank a lot and I had to wait for a few hours before going home. We were watching Netflix and he decided to put his head in my lap. I’m thinking ok whatever I don’t really care. Then he puts his hand around my waist and rests it on the small of my back. THEN he asks me if I want to be eaten out while he has his head in my lap.

I’m like what??? Why would you ask your friend something like that??? I’ve decided now that I’ll never drink with him again and I’m considering telling my other male friends so they can keep an eye out for me.

What do I do? Do I tell that friend that what he did and said made me really uncomfortable and that it wasn’t ok? Do I cut him off or keep him at a distance?

I’m tired of these men thinking that our bodies are there for them. Once is already too many times to be touched and flirted with when you don’t want to. Friends shouldn’t do that to friends.