Long Post

So for almost 5 years we have been staying at my MIL house, rent free per her decision but paying for everything else. Less then two years ago when I found out I was pregnant she acted like she wanted us out and then changed her mind. Saying she'd never forsake us and that when she retires that we might have to pay rent. We agreed...no biggie since we offered several times before. Well 6 months ago, we were having trouble with a psycho druggie neighbor who was threatening our lives (daughter included). We needed something better and she asked us about moving an hour out to be closer to her. Buying a house, kind of like we are now. We agreed, super excited, she started looking for houses.

Fast forward...during one of our conversations she pops in interrupting...saying that she's going to sell the house in June and that maybe we should look into section 8 houses or maybe move in with my sister. But she said that we didn't need to talk about it because the holidays are coming. So we can talk about it in 2 months. So that'll give us 6 months to pack an entire house...get full time jobs (currently watching nephew as income ontop of going to school full time). And transition our soon to be 2 year old to the idea of leaving the place she now calls home.

I'm not pissed that she wants to sell the house just everything else surrounding it.

Update:

So we laid it out how we felt cause she wants to spend Thanksgiving together. And she replied saying she was worried about our future because neither one of us is in class. (Don't know where she got that from). And she isn't going to do anything till June so we can figure it out. That she is sorry she made assumption and that she wasn't going to have us moving down there hurt my education. Though I clearly told her it wouldn't. So her idea of being worried about our future means kicking out of the house? WTF.

This is a damn mess and I feel like I'm talking with someone who is making assumptions and not being coherent.

Like does that make any sense to anyone?

MIL are a pain sometimes!