Im so proud of myself, i was able to save quite a bit of money in a short period. I dont have a car and currently rent with my husband. My husband and i would like a house but we are not on good terms and honestly i dont know if we will make it. I feel like buying a house might help our marriage because its one of the things we argue about. But i am afraid of the commitment with him and am telling myself to just buy my dream car. I dont know what to do?

Thank you for talking sense into me ladies.

My husband is so miserable in our apartment but i told him the issue is not where we live, it doesn’t help but its not the core of his unhappiness. We have had an amazing luxury apartment before and he was worse there than he is at our average smaller apartment now. I told him we need therapy, we can be happy anywhere. But sometimes i feel so much pressure and think maybe if we did have this and that he will be happier and our marriage would be better. But my mom gave me the same advice you guys gave me, she said i need to take time to work on the marriage without a house. She said the house is not the issue.