WHAT WOULD YOU CALL THIS

So my mother is 53 I’m 20.

She’s had a hard life , not much education etc but that doesn’t stop her from wanting better etc.

but I notice she’s try’s to pry information out of me when it comes to money , men and just moving up on life. She try’s to see what the guys I’m dating looks like.

I found a recipe online to make for thanksgiving and I said I’d make it and she completely bo guarded it and wouldn’t let me make it.

I noticed her acting funny when we were working together , she was having me to come with her to and when I showed her everything she stopped asking me to come around.

She takes my ideas and it’s like she try’s to use my knowledge to better herself.

She my mother but I feel uncomfortable with her mentally.

Would would you do ?