Advice

So I have an update. I had sent the father of my twins a picture of my ultrasound of the twins, his sister sent me a message saying that until I send a full picture of the ultrasound that there will be no further discussion about anything and that since a paternity test hasn’t been done yet there can’t be any money or responsibility given, and that they think I lied about the ultrasound being mine.

And she went on to say that I won’t receive any further email responses from the father and that he doesn’t want to communicate rn. Idk I feel like the last part is false cuz I feel like they’d do anything just so him and I aren’t on speaking terms and I feel like that’s fucked up of them to do. I just feel like his side of the family is handling this situation all wrong.

Like it sucks but at this point I’m about to put my foot down and say that none of them will be allowed to be involved including the father all bcuz of how they’re all handling things here. Like I get if he’s in denial that all this isn’t happening, but the least he could do is still keep communicating with me during this pregnancy. Like at this point I’m so frustrated at his sister and his parents. I’m in between frustrated with the father and also feeling hurt by him too that he’d do the exact same thing my daughters father and his family did to me by leaving me and not talking to me during my pregnancy.

Idek what to do anymore I’m so hurt by everything. All I want is for the father to talk to me and be involved, but his family is just taking full control of this situation. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I’m trying to be strong for my kids but idk what else there is to do here. And on top of all this I have to deal with my parents being pissed at him but seeing me as a disappointment bcuz I’m pregnant again at a young age.

Like this dude is 23 years old. He’s an adult by now. And I feel like he’s just letting his sister and his parents take control of this situation between him and I all bcuz he’s scared of getting kicked out of the house. Like I hate that he’s doing that. Like I just rlly think he needs to keep communicating with me during this pregnancy and that he needs to step and take responsibility for his actions.

Everyone that’s on my side about this situation is saying that too. And I agree with what everyone on my side is saying. But I fr feel like I’m at a loss here and don’t know what to do. I feel so frustrated and hurt by him. I want these twins to grow up with their dad being involved. I just don’t know what to do to get him to see that he needs to keep communicating with me and that he needs to step up and be involved.