No SEX?

Girls I need some help.

I have tried EVERYTHING. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and I’ve always been the one to initiate sex - it’s annoying.

At first he said he’s not like that but I catch him watching porn, he created a TikTok solely for that + more. What the actual fuck?

He then mentioned how he gets turned on by a deeper connection? Acts of service is his love language and apparently I am not doing enough ? He made a comment about how I never get ready for him (we live together)

I LITERALLY got my nails done, coochie shaved, lashes done, makeup done and when I tried to initiate something he always pushes me away and comes up with something.

I ended up buying a vibrator bc a girl needs to RELAX, he got offended and now I’m HORNY 24/7 and he isn’t being any help.

It’s honestly so heartbreaking. I’m starting to think he doesn’t love me like that. What should I do?