Husband has zero stamina...

I'm hoping someone can give me some insight on this. Quite frankly because I'm frustrated...and I feel bad because I feel like I shouldn't be.

My husband is 38. I am 37. We have been together for 10 years. We've had a decent sex life. We used to have a 10 minute sexcapade where we were both satisfied. Meaning we both orgasamed and it was just the right amount of time. Not too long, not too short. He enjoys foreplay and I really don't. I let him go down and finger because he does enjoy it...it just doesn't get me going the way kissing and rubbing on my back and butt do.. (I know, I'm weird).

Anyway, the past few years...yes years....he literally IF I'm lucky will last 3 minutes. Usually it's maybe at max 10 to 15 pumps. He claims it's because I feel so good.. but ladies.... I'm not getting off. He's finishing when he's finally got the rhythm that makes it feel good. 😕

I've voiced my concerns and for the longest time, just took care of business afterwards.. but its just not the same. And I'm tired of having too. He wipes up and leaves. I'm laying there naked, turned on and disappointed.

I feel like just a hole. And again, I've said this to him...I wouldn't say he's blaming me.. but idk what else to call it or what it would be.

He isn't comfortable with me having didos because he doesn't want me to prefer them over him. I've went as far as asking him to just keep going and he says he can't because its sensitive.

With that, am I being unsensitive? Am I being selfish? Is this a condition or could something be wrong? Any advice is appreciated.