Ever since my two-year-old daughter was born my mother in law has a breakdown about every few months. Saying I hardly get to see her. She sees her other grandparents more often(my parents). I never get pictures sent to me. You always spend the holidays with them. You always go over to the other grandparents house.

I'm so sick and tired of this. And every time she breaks down and crys and throws a fit like a child until my husband gives into whatever you heck she is wanting. I am done giving in to her tantrums like a child.

She lived about 20 minutes away. And just moved a month ago even further away about 50 minutes to be closer to her work. And we have a very busy life my husband working 8 to 5 and sometimes later. Then he comes home eats dinner then sometimes we have things to do at home. And then it's 8pm and daughters bed time. He sometimes works on Saturdays. So when he is home. We spend quality time together and don't want his mom here with us. I'm just ranting cuz I have no one else to rant to. I told her that the holidays is just another day. It doesn't matter what day we get together. My husband is an only child so it's just us and his mom. I have a bigger family so that's why we always do it on the actual holiday. It should not be that big of a deal to throw a baby fit.

PS. My parents live 5 minutes away from my house. And I go there to hang out when hubby works late.