Is this manipulation ?

so my husband comes into the room and says he didn’t pull out last time we had sex. I was calm and didn’t say nothing at first . But he kept saying it over and over and laughing . I got really really upset and told him why would he not tell me . Aren’t you trying to get rid of me ?(divorce wise) . He kept trying to touch me and have sex and was saying I’m his wife laughing and thinking it’s funny I told him not to touch me . This relationship is a non sexual relationship now . And he jokingly said ok . Then he gets up and leaves out . Then he comes back and was like I’m just playing I see who you really are and now I don’t want anything from you for Christmas . I waited 10 mins to talk to him and I just can’t believe he’s blaming me and my response. He knows we don’t need anymore kids right now . We don’t have our own place . We barely communicate etc . It’s just a lot . And this is not the first time im dealing with these antics . I apologized for what I said but he claims I said it and that’s what I meant . I told him I was angry that’s why I said it . I’m not sure how to feel . Is he being manipulative ? Gaslighting ? Narcissistic ?