Is he delaying the announcement on purpose?

I'm wondering if my husband seems to be delaying telling people on purpose or if this is all in my head..

When I was 9w I asked him when he wanted to announce and he said after 12w, which I was on board with.. I asked him if he was fine doing it over the phone as we likely will not be seeing certain people by then and he said that was fine..

12w came and he said that he didn't say that, said that he would prefer to do it in person.. so I asked when will that be, it could be months before we make the 5 hour trip to see everyone again.. after a lengthy and quite heated discussion, he agreed that if by mid December we don't make the trip then he will tell people over the phone and I can do the social media announcement I want.. I agreed.

He ended up telling his family and close friends early because my parents accidentally told someone that could potentially spread the news round to his friends and he didn't want them recieveing second hand news. He was mad about it (which I understand) but he told them.. said I still couldn't announce on social media yet but couldn't give me a reason as to why.. with our first we had announced right after our 12w scan..

Snow fell, and I asked if we could take the picture in the snow for our announcement so its ready, he agreed. I didn't love it so I asked if we could redo it and he got annoyed and said no, that it was fine.. so I left it as the picture may not have been perfect but it was still nice..

My 16w appointment came and I heard the heartbeat for the first time, after that I asked if it would be OK for us to finally announce on social media (I'm quite active on it and it's getting hard to hide) he agreed, when I sent him the "final picture" he said he wasn't happy with it and that he wants to retake it 🤦🏻‍♀️ I agreed to wait for the weekend so we can retake it..

Then comes today.. I got ready whilst he was out with our son.. I asked him to please come back before it gets dark as we need the natural light for the picture and he said he would be home well before 3pm.. he got home at 3pm.. the natural light disappeared and we tried to take a pic with our living room light but all the shadows were horrible and he kept going on his phone delaying the picture.

I got annoyed and told him to just leave it for today.. I got ready for nothing and just feel like crap.. I feel like he's just delaying it on purpose.. does it seem that way?