3rd Degree

Termyria

Hello mommies is anyone else experiencing feeling like their partner is always cheating? Before I got pregnant I was fine now I am detective and I hate it. He doesn’t entertain me he just laughs and say baby I am not cheating. I have never found anything, but I just all of a sudden believe he is always cheating. He got mad one time because I took it to a whole another level, and I still had yet to apologize. I found a earring in his car, and asked who was it for. My daughter was like momma that’s mine remember when I was sleeping it came out. When he got in the the car I asked him and he said the same thing. I didn’t believe neither of them, so I asked where was the other earring he said it should also be in the back. I’m like whatever he gets out the car go to the back and picks it up. He started to say he couldn’t believe I really thought other wise. It started to come to me that yes that was the same earrings I was looking for when I asked my daughter where were they. Mine you they are kid earrings,but I wasn’t thinking about that at the time. I was quiet the whole ride home. I love him,he just understands and chooses not to entertain me. I hate it though it’s most definitely not my intuition, because we as women know. It’s just like once I create it I believe it ,and that’s what it is.

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Br

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I would take it easy unless he gives you a legit reason to think otherwise…

Te

Termyria • Dec 22, 2021
You right I’m trying. I prayed about because this could drive some one up the wall.🤦🏾‍♀️ This is his first child ,and I don’t want him to feel like omg this how she is when she pregnant. He is ver humble though so I feel he understands.

Ni

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Hormones are a bitch 😅 my husband won’t entertain my crazy thoughts anymore. I constantly have Dream’s of him cheating or leaving me and he reminds me he’s too lazy to cheat 😂 I only get paranoid when I’m pregnant. I have this overwhelming fear with absolutely no reason. My husband has never cheated, sent inappropriate messages, or even looked at another person (without telling me)I would apologize and just tell him what you’re thinking

Te

Termyria • Dec 23, 2021
Lol

Ni

Nickie • Dec 22, 2021
Don’t be sad! It’s okay! I literally can’t control myself 😅 I know when I’m being a bitch but sometimes I can’t stop. This is my 6th (5th with my husband) so now he tells me when I’m being extra crazy

Te

Termyria • Dec 22, 2021
You are right 😔

Br

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I was normal before pregnancy too in that aspect. It never even crossed my mind but now I’m constantly on edge wondering if he is

Br

Bri • Dec 22, 2021
When his phone rings I automatically assume it’s a woman.. if he doesn’t respond I think he’s cheating. I know it’s all irrational because I know he would never do that, but these invasive thoughts are really putting a damper on how I feel about him.

Te

Termyria • Dec 22, 2021
Aw yes that’s how I am so on edge now.