Does this make me a bad mom?

Question

me and my daughters father are great at co-parenting I originally have her 5 days a week but some nights I ask her dad if he wants her and he doesn’t mind at all he loves spending time with her and giving me some rest but his mother bashes me saying I’m putting her off and I’m starting to feel that way like for the last 3 nights she stayed with her dad but spent all day with me and his mother just judges me for it does this make me a bad mother

Answer

In my honest opinion as long as you and her father are OK with it I don't think what she says should really matter. I mean I think it would be different if you were constantly doing it to go out.

Answer

No one's opinion matters but his. If he feels you're just panning the child off, he can speak up. 
Sounds like someone just wants you two to have an unhealthy relationship.

Answer

No as long as she is safe and with her parents you're doing just fine. It's great that she has a great dad who loves her and spends time with her. A mom who loves her and coparents great. Sounds like a very lucky child.

Answer

Ummm I'm sorry...if that's HER father you can't be pawning her off on him period. Tell his mom I said to kiss your ass

Answer

How does your daugther feel? If she is happy, I would say that is all that matters.

Answer

Not at all. In my opinion, unless one parent is a threat to the child in any way, both parents should have 50/50 custody

Does this make me a bad mom?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey