Four c sections

Hey veteran mamas! Have any of you had 4 c sections? I am on my fourth pregnancy, which will be a repeat c section, and I just went for my first doctors appointment. My doctor was super concerned and almost borderline rude. He said the possible Complications from 3 c sections to 4 c sections increases tenfold, and now I am terrified. I just turned 36 which also now makes me ‘geriatric’. He said my baby and myself are both in extreme risk of serious issues or even death. Has anyone else had this experience?! I have 3 babies at home that need me. I can’t risk my life at their expense.