Sad no more babies

I had went to go do blood work, they checked my thyroid and Hormones and other test I didn't know about, I got results came back ok I been tired sleeping alot fatigue, this year I was having periods sometimes I missed one month or two and period again,my last period was Oct, I got email to go look at my chart cause I received my results, so I looked at them and I screen shot it and sent them to my retired Dr everything came out great and one said confirm menopause!!!! The Dr that requested test never called me back or told me that she tested me about if I was menopause, I have high sex drive and she said I still could have high sex drive the problem is I'm not ovulating anymore so I can't get pregnant, I'm sad depressed I have some symptoms of it, I do want to have sex but once we get into it it's running thoughts and I can't focus and we stop, is there anything I could do to keep focused on having sex and don't have running thoughts so I could enjoy it, I don't feel like a woman anymore, I don't have interest in anything I use to do I don't feel happy joyful like I use to I don't play basketball with my son we don't do anything like we use to and I hate it,has anyone been through what I'm going through, please no bad comments,thank you,,,one more thing I talked to a friend of mine and she suggested we look at porno that might be able to help me focus but I told her no,