Help i need advice

Im 35 weeks pregnant due early February… I’m freaking out because ive been having braxton hicks since 25 weeks but yesterday i had intense lower back pains and lots of pressure you know where 😩😩…. Today ive been on the toilet all day (TMI im sorry) pooping… and i know that could be an early sign labor is near…. I went into a sudden urge to pack baby bag and my hospital bag today but im still not fully ready 😩😩😩 someone please tell me I’m freaking out for no reason or if it’s real labor is near and how close 😩😩😩 TIA ❣️❣️