My boyfriend didn’t cum. What am I doing wrong?

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hey everyone! 
I tried giving my boyfriend a handjob last night — he’d never had before and I’d never given one. 
I used spit as lube, I did everything he told me to, but he didn’t come.
He came close a lot of times — shaking, moaning, etc, but he never ejaculated.
I’m kind of embarrassed and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. 
Please help! :(

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You both obviously just really new at this is all. No one is a pro first time.

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Seems normal, you probably will learn his body after doing it more.

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When it comes to hand jobs and blow jobs for a man, you can’t break the momentum. If you start the pattern, you can’t stop. I know sometimes you get tired, your jaw hurts, your hand hurts whatever it may be, but you can’t stop the momentum. If you do, all of that buildup goes back to zero. And you have to start the build up all over again. And when it comes to women, with clitoral stimulation, you usually only get one shot, after that it’s either overly stimulated or painful and it just doesn’t get there. Happens for some women but most women, you get one shot. With men, you can have multiple shots, but you got to start all over again from zero. If it’s going to be a hand job not oral sex, maybe lotion would’ve been a better lube, or some thing that he normally uses, but he said it’s the first time he’s done it himself, I would’ve use lotion for a hand job in all honesty, spit dries up quickly, unless it’s in your mouth and constantly being re-wet over and over again. ￼￼￼

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No you didn’t do anything wrong, he isn’t used to someone else doing this so it’s going to feel different for him so can be harder to finish
Ask him to help you out so you know how he likes it next time

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every man is different. i don’t think i’ve ever had a man finish from that, besides my current boyfriend. some men finish faster and easier. and it’s easy to lose rhythm cause your hand definitely starts to cramp lol. it’s not you!

My boyfriend didn’t cum. What am I doing wrong?

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