Babygirl was born 1/20/22. Born 10 lbs 23 inches vaginally and omg was that scary. Shoulders got stuck and took her a minute to take her first breathe. She now has been diagnosed with jaundice so I’m pumping and formula feeding baby every 2 hours religiously to reduce the jaundice. Besides that baby is perfect not fussy at all as long as she gets fed and diaper dry. However my toddler is so emotional and clingy. It’s getting overwhelming trying to calm her. She got so shocked by baby being here that we ended up at the ER with a fever of 104 she won’t eat and will start crying if I tend to baby. Im emotionally and physically exhausted by the end of the day I just cry and feel like a failure to both. I can’t give 100% to toddler and can’t form a bond with baby because I have to pay her down quickly after feeding and diaper change.