Anyones caring husband turn inconsiderate?

Question

I just feel like he use to care for me a lot when I was in pain or sick and now that I’m pregnant it’s like a whatever thing. Like the nausea and the fears and all of that are just what I have to deal with. I’m 1000 miles away from my family and this is so hard on me. 
I’m also recovering from Covid so maybe I’m being a big emotional baby about everything cause I’m sick idk!!!!!

Answer

I think that anyone who is around someone who is sick all the time, even if it’s from pregnancy, gets fatigued and that’s valid. Talk to him about how important his support is, and maybe reevaluate what is worth verbally complaining about.

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Well, being sick is an illness. Pregnancy is just a process. Sure, you can feel crummy and he can acknowledge it, but don’t expect him to treat you like an invalid for 7 months. He’s not a jerk, but if you need something just ask for it. It’s not uncommon for men to write off pregnancy woes sometimes because it’s a normal “part of the process”. Just ask for help when you need it.

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I agree with everyone else. Also remember this is his baby too. He may very well have fears and worries of his own that he’s dealing with and trying to be strong about. It might be hard to mentally juggle his and yours and come off fully supportive. Sometimes it’s the little things you notice that show they’re being extra considerate, for example we don’t have trash pick up and normally we alternate weeks taking the trash to the recycling center down the road. He started to just take it each week.

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I feel you, I’m 22 weeks pregnant and we live in Hawaii while my family all lives in New York. I was just told I have a low lying placenta, I’m getting over Covid, and now I’m getting a strange rash all over my body. My husband is just dismissive at this point and it makes me really sad, I don’t have any support here and he works crazy hours so I’m alone a lot too. He is basically tired of me being sick or “always having an issue” but it’s literally just the pregnancy and Covid.

Anyones caring husband turn inconsiderate?

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