I’ve in a relationship with the same guy for the past 10 years. We are coming from different cultures and backgrounds. His family is not accepting me because I am coming from different religion. He told me that he can’t stay with me forever because for him the most important thing is his mom and dad and he can’t do anything which makes them angry of him.

Last year we talked about our situation and I told him that I can’t stay in a relationship which is not secured and I have a future to worry about. (What made me say this is that I see him planning for his future and starting to do things which I am not part of), during our conversation we agreed that we will breakup but stay friends.

Until this moment he keeps dealing with me as his girlfriend in everything. I really want to end this situation because I really feel it’s affecting me negatively. My job allows me to relocate and I am thinking of doing that because I really want to start a new chapter in my life.

I know that he is waiting me to do a move and to express my feelings so we can have a real breakup. He doesn’t want to do this move because he knows that he let me down once when he said I can’t merry you or be with you forever.

I really want an advice on how to put an end to this situation and prioritize myself without harming him. We’ve together for more than 10 years and he always treats me well and supported me in everything. So I want to end everything in a good terms.

Please give me an advice.

Sorry for my English, it’s not my first language!