Dam baby mama / do I leave

If you take the time to read this and my vent ! I thank you . Also keep in mind .. my question . Is it time to walk away .?

Been with the boyfriend almost 8 years , live with one another have our blended family’s . His daughters mom has been a non stop lunatic . First few years she tried having birthday parties for him with their daughter , texted him random shit , expressed her love for him , expressed she was the baby mama and never going away . Couple more years in after we moved in together the texts about him truly finding “ the one “ how could he do this to her , blah blah blah , still random texts continue , she stated no female has treated him as bad as me , my daughters a bad influence on her kid and a bunch of BS . He ignores them all . We went away on vacation she texts him with random stuff , every time we go away ! She told him ,she refuses to talk to me as I’m not the parent . This last text was the final straw . Mind you , I had already warned him this new year I’m done dealing with it . She sent some crazy text about her daughter suffering all week with cramps , bled through some pants and those things needed to be taken out and washed immediately , also she needs supplies at the house for her period ! I lost my shit . I had already went and got pads , razors , cream , midol and made her a care package , she had everything here !!!!!!and the laundry 🧺 I’m sorry you may dissagree, but I’m not running up to get it every time it happens . I didn’t do that for my daughter or myself . So , I told him . You need to text this woman , I’m done I’ve dealt with way to much the past 8 years from her , and it needs to stop or at least you can ask her to please stop , be respectful of our relationship and have boundaries , and if she chooses not to than we can at-least you tried .

The guy refuses to text her !!! So I said either I am and it’s not gonna be pretty and I’m sure I’ll not be allowed to do pick up or drop off or allowed at any recitals after this or you can . He yelled fine , you do it !! Send her the dam text .

So in my mind , he choose what he’d prefer outta life , and that’s dealing with her bs and letting me continue feeling this way and dealing with this drama I don’t need … so I’m very , very close to send her a e mail and walk away from this dysfunctional ex relationship !