I kind of separated from my husband after a huge argument. We just werent getting along, he has anger issues and refuse to get help for many years. He also complains alot and seems he isnt happy with his life. He is older than me and i felt suffocating with his negativity and anger. Weve never built anything together. So i decided i want to start living my life. We also have a toddler and a a baby on the way. I moved into my own apartment and i got a car. He started going to therapy and wants to move in and be a family while he works on himself. I furnished the place and i feel he should pay half and pay rent as well if he wants to move in with me. All this has been a span of 4 months. I created a nice space for myself, baby and baby on the way, i dont think its fair he just walks and start living the nice apartment after i did all the work.

Thanks so much for your advice ladies. I agree i should wait longer for him to show me he is working on himself.

Response to Momento, my husband lived like a single man. He had no motivation for anything. He wouldnt do anything if its not half and half. And when i wanted to buy things for our place, he was controlling and showed no interest which also killed my motivation. The last two places we have lived, we lived like college students. Thats one of the big reason i moved so i can start living like a normal 30 yr old not a 19 yr old college student. Its also why if he was to move in soon, i felt it wasn’t fair.