Ultrasounds

hi ladies. this is my first time being pregnant and i am 12 weeks. My husband and I have tricare (military insurance) and they wouldn’t even see me at the hospital on base until i was 10 weeks and then once i was seen it was just take a pregnancy test and draw blood and i got a referral to an obgyn and that obgyn isn’t available to see me so i have to see a nurse practitioner and I won’t be able to be seen until Feb 21st which is in about three weeks. I haven’t heard the heartbeat, i don’t know if my baby is growing normally or anything and i was wondering if this was normal at this point in pregnancy because i am starting to feel very discouraged by the health staff and how slow and behind they have been. even with my appointment i won’t even be meeting my actual obgyn just the nurse practitioner at the facility and i just feel discouraged that i don’t know what’s going on with my baby so if you guys can share your experience or if this is normal that would be great. thanks love 💗