No connection

I’m 34 weeks and feel like I don’t really have a connection with my baby. With my first I would rub my belly and felt way more connected to her but this one I just feel pregnant. It could be because I’m busy with my 2 year old but I’m kinda nervous I just don’t feel the connection. I mean I love my baby and happy to be pregnant but I don’t day dream about holding him or have a strong urge like I just can’t wait to meet you. If any of that makes sense.. Am I alone or has anyone else felt this with their second?