Insensitive husband during pregnancy

My husband has become increasingly insensitive during this pregnancy, I’m 27 weeks along. We cannot have sex but the doctor cleared me for anything external, such as oral and clit stuff. My husband absolutely refuses to take care of my needs sexually, even though I suck his dick every other day.

I work from home, he assumes this means I clean up everything and take care of everything around the house. I’ll fold his clothes and they will sit on the dresser for weeks and he never puts them away. We never watch anything I want to watch as far as movies. He never compliments me, just comments on how big my belly is getting. Has not called me beautiful in months. I wanted to start prepping the nursery and he refuses to buy anything saying we still have time, yet goes and spends money to fix his truck. He won’t help me cook dinner or clean up around the house, the only thing he does is take the trash out. I’ve asked him for weeks to sweep off the porch and organize his stuff in the loft and he won’t. I do everything for him. I’ve struggled with depression my whole life and it was better however this pregnancy has made it worse, so I’ve been a bit sensitive, however when I get upset he just tells me to shut up or gets in his truck and leaves. When he’s at work he ignores my texts. I want to go home so bad, but we are stationed overseas and due to complications in my pregnancy I’m unable to fly until after birth, and due to increased Covid restrictions my family cannot come visit me. I also don’t really have any friends here, as I work from home and all his friends are single. I feel so deeply unappreciated and unwanted. The only time he’s nice to me is when he fets what he wants or after he’s had a few beers he will be sweet. It’s not even that he’s mean, he’s just dismissive of my feelings and doesn’t help me with anything. I don’t know what to do, because I don’t want to raise my son without a father, and I can’t go anywhere until after the baby is born.