So I just found out I was pregnant. I just got married in September 21 and I have a 7 yr old. While I was single I needed a lot of help from my family. They helped watch him, they helped financially and went out there way to spoil him. I am completely grateful for this. Now they do still help and spoil but not as much. Mostly help with transportation from school since Covid has limited child care. He is still spoiled beyond reason by both my sister and aunt. I told my aunt already who helps pick up my son after school and she was saying things like you already get alot of help do you expect that with this baby. How many kids do y’all have now ( my husband has 3 kids this would be our first together). My sister is way worse and I’m literally terrified to tell her. I’m 30 by the way. She does buy my son alot. I never ask. We are just use to co parenting when it comes to him. But I just have so much fear to the point I thought about just not having the baby. Am I wrong?

Sorry for any confusion, I fear her judgment. She can get pretty nasty and she can be very toxic at times. She just has plans in her head how my life should go (she’s basically raised me after loosing our my when I was 12). Usually when I go against her plans or don’t do what she likes she becomes a different horrible person. Says the nastiest things but calls it being real and telling me about myself.