How do you guys handle a husbands ex-wife?? His is SOOOO two face about things! She’s upset that he’s with me, she’s upset that we’re expecting, and she’s upset that her daughter has another female in her life. When I’m fact she’s went off on him and claimed that we were ruining her life when she found out we were expecting. She was upset when he moved on with me (and she had literally been banging men since he told her he was filing. I’m talking 5 guys in 5 months). She claims the “system” screwed her with custody, when she bruised her daughters face by flicking her directly between the eyes! She was lucky child services weren’t called on her (I wanted to, trust me…)!!

She got upset today during her supervised visitation because she thought her daughter was calling me mom (which she doesn’t. She uses my first name). She claimed that it was great that her daughter was going to be a big sister (which obviously she wasn’t and hasn’t been because she went global on us). She said in a message that she’s never threatened him, when she’s threatened to go postal MULTIPLE times….

It makes it hard to enjoy this pregnancy and be happy when she’s always there raising hell about everything. We have custody because she physically hurt her daughter causing her to be bruised, a known drug user when having the daughter, doesn’t take her medication like she’s supposed to, basically leaving her at daycare until the last possible minute because she wanted to do other things (she’s had about 5-6 jobs in the last year. Left all of them and fired from 1), and she actually wrote out that she didn’t wanna have her anymore because she couldn’t handle it (and then came crying back and said that we had taken her daughter from and we’re keeping her from her)

I’m sorry, I just really needed to vent this all out….I’m always hopeful that she’ll turn over a new leaf and we can co-parent together, but it’s so hard to believe that’s possible sometimes 😞 I just so want her to have an opportunity to be in her daughters life if it can be made possible. That mother-daughter relationship is so important if it’s fostered appropriately.

Thanks for reading if you made it this far 😭

-Signed A Very Emotionally Exhausted Pregnant Mamma