Why are men disgusting?

I’m not speaking about all men, I am well aware that not everyone is like this. But my man is.

Socks never go in the hamper unless I go looking for where he put them, and put it in the hamper myself. He never throws garbage or recycling items in the bins, only on the counter for me to throw away.

Unfortunately I am unemployed at the moment, therefore I can’t purchase a bed for the mattress that’s been laying on the floor for a year. He disposes his phlegm on the damn radiator next to the mattress, and at this point it has become some disgusting collection of it. ( I will not, and refuse to clean that because god damn it, It’s not my job to clean after that 🤢).

Now that I’ve been sleeping on the couch for awhile now, he starting doing the very same thing to the night stand on my side of the bed. I am, seriously very disgusted by him and I have absolutely no idea why I’m putting up with it. It’s gotten to the point I never want to live with a man again. I also am starting to feel very disconnected from him, I don’t even want to get intimate with him anymore, and I am questioning as to why I’m sticking around. Anyway, this is just a rant; thank you for listening