Post Valentine’s Day MIA

So my bf and I have been together for 5 years. We have gone to this amazing restaurant for the past 4 Valentine’s Day and it’s just our little special date spot.

He got home from work early on Valentine’s Day and set up this cute flower arrangement with a nice bottle of wine and lit a candle. He was all proud of himself and seemed genuinely into celebrating it with me.

We had an amazing night together! We talked about planning a future and supporting eachother and a bunch of nice stuff.

Fast forward to tonight, the night AFTER Valentine’s Day. He tells me 2 hours before the end of the workday that he was going to go to a happy hour with some friends and may just spend the night there if he has too many drinks to drive home since it’s like a 30 min or more drive.

I was busy at work so didn’t see this until I was about to leave late meaning I couldn’t make arrangements for someone to let out the dogs since he is normally home first, so already off to a bad start.

Then i was thinking…. Is it not sketchy that he is staying out the day after Valentine’s Day? So I tried to call him and talk to him about it. He conveniently didn’t answer his phone. This boy lives on his phone…. So he randomly stops answering at dinner time? No text no call?

He cheated about 4 years ago but weve seemed so good since. I thought we both grew up a lot since our relationship started in college and now we’ve grown up more in the working world and living together.

But I just get such a bad feeling from this… am I just getting in my own head? Or is this a little sketchy?