Worried I am pregnant

Before I get started I will answer a couple of questions.

1. Am I on birth control? No

2. why? Because my doctor has suggested I not be on any birth control med due to cancer genes in my family and my high risk.

3. What is our form of birth control? Condoms, which I am allergic to haha

I also have anxiety and depression, have been severely stressed and suffering from health anxiety the past couple of months which I am sure can have an impact in various ways also.

Now with all of that out of the way… here we go. Two periods ago, I started on December 29th. The next period started on January 24th. It jumped five days early which surprised me bc it is always pretty decent with consistency. My husband and I had unprotected sex a couple days following my last period. My period ended on the 30th. The first time half way through, he put on a condom. The second time he pulled out before finishing, paused and held it because this stops it for a sec, and then decided where it would go lol the remainder of times we had intercourse this past month we used condoms start to finish and he pulled out and finished in them. On Saturday the 12th I went to go pee and when I wiped there was literally a speck of blood or a dot. A person that doesn’t examine it like me probably wouldn’t have even noticed it. It wasn’t a lot diluted or anything, just a speck. I wasn’t worried at all until that happened bc I jump to the worst. I know it can be from various things but I guess I want others logical thoughts and peace of mind because my anxiety gets the best of me. In my underwear, there was no dot of blood or anything just white discharge. Nothing unusual. Nothing the days after either and nothing since then.

What do you guys think, should I be worried about being pregnant (precum chance is rare?) or could it have been from late ovulation? Because the way period ended, eve predicted ovulation day to be the 8th. I just don’t want to have anything to worry about. I’ve never bled a little from ovulation before that I remember but then again I could’ve not even noticed. My period is supposed to be here in 4 days. I could’ve swore I was gonna start yesterday because I had a cramp feeling but then just discharge in my underwear which I produce more of it before my period anyways. Yesterday I did cry twice out of the blue when 5 seconds ago I was fine? Lol i just wanna know that I am truly just being a worry wart. Thanks in advance and sorry for typing so much here haha