Visitation when living in different states

Christina

I moved to OH last year from NC where my daughter who is almost 4 lives with me full time. I'm just wondering what yalls visitation looks like when the baby daddy doesn't live near. Right now I drive 8 hrs once a month on the weekend so she can see him. It's kind of crazy that I agreed to it. Pregnant with my 2nd with my bf and thinking of doing every 3 months since he doesn't take his time seriously when we do visit. He'll show up at 10 or 11 to pick her up and drop her off at 5 when in our agreement it's supposed to be pick her up at 8am and drop her off at 7pm. I stay with a relative in NC that's like an hr from him. He's not allowed over nights with her. Just want to hear from other mamas!