Hello, I just joined this group and I have seen a lot of comments and posts about underage kink. I, a 17 year old, have been in a d s dynamic for 3 years with my dominant, who is 18. It is not wrong to be curious and explore the bdsm community. The adults on here are discouraging teens who aren’t well educated yet. That’s not right and let me explain why. We all have kinks and fantasy that needs to be met, correct? The adults and teens who are well educated should take the time to explain the dos and dont’s of bdsm dynamics. When teens are told no don’t do this and no don’t fo that there is a huge chance in them exploring, getting abused and hurt, and having nobody to go to because they are scared to be yelled at, and scared to be told the phrase “i told you so”. If adults were just open with curious teens it would create a safe place for those who are not well educated. I was abused 4 years ago by my father. That trauma made me curious. It started my age regression and my submissive curiosities. After that I found a dom who was “26” and was highly abused by him. I talked to my mom, and we both educated our self together on how I can practice bdsm safely as a minor. The main message is… instead of saying no, why don’t we say yes, but these things are big no’s including minor and adult relationships. Minor and minor dynamics are a real thing, and I am living proof. He is me and my dom/ cg ! Message me or comment any questions you may have for me.