My bf masturbates right next to me when i’m trying to sleep…

So I’ve brought it up a couple times now.. but I hate waking up to the sound of a porn video and the sound of him jerking off, just inches away from me. I’m a light sleeper and he knows this.. It’s probably happened over 30 times now and we’ve lived together for over a year and a half. I’ve made it clear that I dislike waking up to a shaky bed and girls moaning on a phone, but he still continues to do it. (Once his leg was leaning on me and he was actually shaking me) Idk if i’m just being easily annoyed and judgy, but honesty it makes me feel insecure, disrespected, and like i’m not enough. I don’t fit the typical girly girl mold, brown hair, green eyes, athletic-ish build. I don’t wear skirts and dresses and am not all girly, which is what he ends up watching. Is it wrong of me to be upset and assume he continues to do it behind my back because I just don’t fit the physical build bill he sexually likes.

I just need some help navigating how I should actually be feeling about this, do I let it go, or is it actually an issue?