I’m pissed am I wrong??

Long story short we went to a baby shower (my cousins) it was super windy and cold. During the baby shower my daughter is acting up and my boyfriend tells me let’s go home & my cousin wasn’t there yet (it was a surprise) and then as the baby shower is going on my daughter is acting up but he wasn’t helping me with her at all he was too busy talking and drinking his beer . So when she threw last fit (when kids were going home) I grabbed her and tried to calm her down and tell her people were going home already he grabbed her and said let’s go. So we ended up leaving. My boyfriend was complaining how my cousin showed up 3 hrs late to his baby shower ( he was working) and how it was super cold and he was hungry. I told him if I knew he was going to show up late we could came at a later time but he said I was being selfish when I didn’t want to leave & I told him that he didn’t have to stay I wasn’t forcing him he could of just came home. And he also said that I was rewarding our daughter by staying when she was acting up. Does he forget that me and my daughter are at home mon-fri all day with no car… our weekends are weekends to be out not to be inside our house. So he told me I was selfish and I told him I had a ride back home especially with our daughter but he said he wanted to take my daughter home so I could enjoy my time but what about my daughter she’s stuck at home why take her home when she’s playing with her cousins and seeing family members? So I told him that he was a hypocrite because when we are at his friends house and I tell him let’s go home he always stays … even when his friends tell him to go home he stays . Hypocrite much??? He said I wasn’t thinking of our daughter and how cold it is . She’s running around with her cousins having fun?? How is that not thinking of my child? He also told me he was hungry ok you have our car and you can get food and go home. So we got into a big argument in the car and he pulled over because he was getting so upset and tried to take the easy way out by pulling over and having a friend pick him up and go drinking…. That’s what he does when he takes the easy way out. So he ended up driving us home and he told me to get out of the car and I didn’t because he’s telling me I’m wrong for being selfish and told me if I didn’t get out he would punch me in the face. So I got out didn’t have anything and took off with my sleeping daughter in the car I had no house keys nothing so I sat outside in the cold probably for about 20 min he came back opened the door and put our daughter in her bed . I was crying and went to wash off the makeup from my face so I came out sat down and he went to the restroom and then took off . There again he’s being a hypocrite saying he wanted to come home and lay down but pretty much just dropped off our daughter and is taking off. I was so pissed. I called him and told him he was a hypocrite for tell me he wants to come home but yet drops off our daughter and me and is taking off ? And he said he didn’t want to be around me that I was playing victim . And I told him exactly what I told him earlier which was he could of left on his own and he got mad and hung up I’m just so pissed it’s okay for him to be out with his friends when I come home but when I want to be with FAMILY members it’s not okay. He is such a hypocrite.