Husband grrr

Em

Anyone else's husband wouldn't stop smoking or drinking during the ivf process? Its a few days before our retrevial and he's been smoking like 3 to 4 cigarettes per day and he's going to have drinks tonight with friends prob about 5 or 6 drinks and he just had like 5 drinks two nights ago. He likes to drink on the weekend. He says its not going to affect my sperm much and whatever happens with this happens.