Think I’m looking for validation

My husband and I found out this last weekend after eight months of trying and being together for a very long time we are finally expecting our baby. I am only about 10 days and made the risky but conscious decision to tell a handful of close family and friends. I went in with the knowledge that if something does happen that I would be OK with those people knowing. I know things can happen and I’m aware of that but I’m letting the societal pressure of guilt you shouldn’t be telling people to soon damper my happiness. I’ve never been so happy in my life but I’m worried people will judge me for telling people too soon when a lot of people wait to announce to close family. Waiting to announce it on social media for quite some time though so just looking for support from family and friends in this early first trimester. Society has put too much stigma and pressure on women to be shameful and grieve in silence, while privacy is important I do not want to perpetrate that stigma. We should be proud and hope for the best. Please don’t judge me Im just so happy.