Thoughts/Opinions? Relationship issues

I absolutely HATE being around my boyfriend when he’s drunk because we always argue/ he always starts crap with me. Examples:

Him accusing me of being with other people

After an argument he talked shit to me: calling me stupid, fake, saying he doesn’t care *ended up breaking up that night so all of this was said before/after and was mad bc I broke up and was ignoring him after hanging up on him bc he threatened to break up with me*

He’s brought up/ forced information out of me about me ex, whom I’ve NEVER brought up because he’s IRRELEVANT

Laughs when we’re being affectionate (during sex or even just kissing when NOTHING is funny)

He tries FORCING and PESTERING me to do things I don’t want to do… (Going over to his house/spending the night bc I don’t like his family)

He tried saying “you don’t even like me for who I am” because I don’t like being around him when he’s drunk, if that was REALLY who you were then why don’t you act that way when you’re SOBER? I’ve never given him a reason to NOT be himself. How come it’s always when you’re fucking drunk?? Make it make sense goofy.

I absolutely HATE stupid drunks, he KNOWS it’s an issue to, his mom even referred to him as an alcoholic but now it’s usually just a weekend thing, although I will say he does go overboard (he’s fallen MULTIPLE times and gotten hurt to the poinr where he has a GASH in his knee, he lost his money, he’s cracked his phone, everytime after he gets drunk and we’ve had a ‘fight’ he’ll say “I’m gonna stop drinking” “I have a problem” blah blah blah because he KNOWS he’s in the wrong.

I have told him before I don’t like being around him when he’s drunk and do try and avoid hanging out with him when he is drunk but sometimes he’ll need a ride then refuses to leave when I get to his place.

Also… he’s always HIGH when he’s with me, that’s not really an issue but like dude you’re NEVER sober when you’re with me.. anyways here’s some text proof with him knowing he’s in the wrong (I told him to talk to me when he’s sober then hung up on him) What are your thoughts on the situation? What would you do?