Is he a ‘shitty guy’?

My boyfriend has a low wage, but buys himself expensive things and has never taken me on a date

I have to plan everything

He always makes me split the bill

Tells me ‘he’s one of the good ones’

Doesn’t let me talk about anything serious, just tells me ‘I’m putting too much pressure on’

Knows he’s very physically attractive

He never offers me drinks or buys food in when I go to stay

He talks about his exes and remained friends with them

He talks about himself a lot

He moans about everything , very negative

He sulks if he doesn’t get his own way e.g McDonald’s ran out of nuggets and he sulked

Never wants to cook, only gets takeaway

He never calls, just sends me TikToks

He dreams of being an actor but isn’t doing anything about it

He constantly talks about money

He didn’t make much effort on my birthday

He doesn’t ask me deep questions to get to know me further

He didn’t get me anything for valentines

He never leaves the house, lazy with chores and everything he does is minimum effort