Stressed.

Im 21 weeks pregnant and have sibling issues.

Im the oldest out of 3. And right now things are out of my control. My brother is in jail right now and due to reasons i can’t bail him out. My gender reveal is today 3/26 and he knew how important it was for me for both of my siblings to be there. Unfortunately, brother won’t be there. Planning my gender reveal and figuring out bail is just so hard. I just can’t pause my life to figure out to help him. (My mom is a different story i do not want to get into she’s just not in my picture.) Every since i was little i’ve always had to be the adult look over my siblings. And i’ve just been so stressed. I need to vent. Im just tired of it. My pregnancy has been a blessing to me haven’t been stressed about it honestly i’ve been the happiest i’ve ever been. But family issues just have been a pain. I don’t want to be selfish but I am starting my own little family now but i just feel like everything is slipping through my hands. I love my brother to death but this is too much. Trying to deal with my brothers problems is hard. I feel like im bending my back for him and he’s just taking advantage of it. It makes me so mad because i would never put him in a position like this… He’s been in and out of jail about 4 times since my pregnancy and I feel like i am the only one worried about it. My moms not even worried about him. Why do i have to be put through this. What can i do to cope with my stress? I know it isn’t healthy for my baby. I get small cramps every now and then but my back is just so tense.