So my boyfriend comes home from work wanting to clean out his closet and he started digging in his closet so he started getting upset and then asked me if I have gone through his closet and I said why and he’s like promise I’m like why are you asking that question ( I already knew the reason why he was acting like that) so he goes I told him I did and I found two packs of coke in one of his little boxes. And he was so upset saying he was going to give them back cause he didn’t use them and he didn’t pay for them. Now before everyone is wondering why I went through his stuff is because we have a 3 year old daughter one day he said if I threw away anything from his closet and I was lost I had no clue what he was even talking about. And I told him no I don’t go through your closet so after one night he came home he was acting weird we went to Chuck E. Cheese and kept saying ima go to the bathroom and on our drive there I suspected something but didn’t want to assume or start an argument with him without any proof so we ended up coming home and our daughter was tired so I put her to bed and me and him stood up talking then we ended up having sex and he kept telling me he had to pee so I thought it was from the beer for all I know he was probably doing coke in our bathroom! Then he came back we started kissing and I had a very bad taste in my mouth and I told him why does my mouth have a bad taste and he said it was probably from the beer. ( I didn’t drink he did) so then I felt my lips and tip of my tongue numb and I figure it was the coke so I pushed him off and he kept denying it and I tried to grab his shorts and he snatched them from me and that’s when I knew he was on it and had it in our home with our daughter I was so furious that I told him to give it to me to throw it away and he refused so many times he said he wanted to spice things up. I was not down with that at all. I was so pissed and hurt. I was more pissed that he had it in our home. So eventually he gave it to me and I threw it down the drain and he was sorry that he would never do it again and would change he said he would only do it when he was drinking and he’ll stop. So a few days passed and I remembered the day he told me about a pack going missing so I started going threw his closet and I found 2 packs of coke in a box I wasn’t sure to wait to confront him about it or just throw it so I threw it down the drain . So he got home from work and was looking for it and got so mad at me saying that why was I going through his stuff and I had no reason to go through his stuff because it’s his stuff . So I told him no matter what you say you should of never had it in our house with our daughter here period. And he told me he was going to get rid of it and give it back and now he has to pay for it . How does that make any sense? It made zero sense to me. So he told me to get out but I couldn’t take our daughter and I told him I’m not going anywhere without here. And he told me I need to get a job because he pays for everything . I’m a SAHM and we both agreed that when she was of age to go to school that I could work and we only have 1 car which he takes to work. So he told me I don’t do nothing I don’t potty train our daughter that I’m a loser that he doesn’t want to marry me and he’s in not in love with me he would of left me a long time ago if we didn’t have our daughter. (But yet when he would do something wrong he would break up with me for it and then come trying to get back with me) he told me I’m a toxic girl because all I do is worry about him and what he’s doing . Because I don’t like when he goes out every weekend with his friends acting like he doesn’t have a family at home. Going out and using our car that’s under my name yes he pays for it but it’s under my name. He would drink and drive and I would find coke in our car like small crumbs . He told me I should get a job and stop waiting for him to get another car but yet wants to use the car that’s under my name( like I said he does pay for it) when I was pregnant he bought me a car so me and my daughter can get around and he would save up money for a car my daughter will be 4 this year and still has not gotten a car. He even threw it in my face that he provides for all 3 of us and I pay for nothing it hurt my heart that he even said that. And I told him I take care of our daughter and he said that’s my job. I am so done with him he thinks just because he pays for our stuff which everything is under mommy name it’s ok for him to do whatever he wants. When I told him I’m taking my car (cause that’s what he says that it’s my car not his) he got upset and told me I don’t pay for it he does and I told him these are the words that come out of your mouth saying it’s my car he went crazy and started arguing with me. He said I should of left the coke there as a test but I told him no the moment I saw it I had to throw it away my daughter is here. I’m so done with him. He thinks he’s right and he’s not.