Am I Being Insensitive ?

Question

Okay ladies, quick question. I have a guy friend who has been a great friend of mine for years. Well my birthday is in 3 days and he sent me out something for my bday. The only thing is, is that my boyfriend was not aware that I have a man sending me a birthday gift to our place. Should I have told him? He knows who he is and everything. He knows we are good friends but I’m not sure if he’s going to feel some type of way about me receiving something from another guy at our address. Am I wrong for accepting it when it comes? I didn’t tell him cause I didn’t think it would be a big deal but sitting back thinking about it I am kinda concerned cause my dude can be VERY insecure and jealous. Like I said he knows we are friends I just don’t know how he will feel about me accepting something from another guy. What do y’all think?

Answer

I cannot fathom being with someone who would have an issue with a friend sending me a gift. That’s just wild to me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Your boyfriends jealousy and insecurities are not your problem. Honestly I couldn’t be with someone who tried using those against me as a way of controlling me. I couldn’t be with someone like that in a relationship. Both of those are unattractive traits. I can understand the insecurities but even then they should be working on them and not using them as a way of getting in the way of y’all’s relationship, but most definitely the jealousy. Gross.

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It’s a gift from your friend. 
You should not be in a relationship with someone who cannot handle friends of the opposite sex, control jealously and insecurity or is this immature.

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The fact that you’re even worried about it is a relationship red flag. ✌🏻

Am I Being Insensitive ?

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