My partner seems miserable these days. As if if he could he would go back and not have any child even tho he LOVEEEES his son. He's a gamer and recently I told him I wish he could wake up at 9h am to help me out because my son climbs everywhere etc. We kinda had a argument before deciding this because he was gaming for hours before bedtime and waking up much later than me and I don't think it is fair at all. He agreed and everything was going great! Now nothing changed, his work schedule haven't changed he still wakes up at 9 even later sometimes but he games until 2 am!! He's always sleepy and even my dad started to tell him why are you always tired o.0 He replied: I never sleep! As if he were complaining. I was like well because you game late. And I said in general he seems miserable because I can feel that he misses a lot of things before having a child. It kind of affects me and the mood is not the best.

What the hell should I do? I can't force him to do anything and it's okay if he has a hobby. I just think not only he does not feel bad but he thinks it's unfair lol.